Feelings hurt.. Friends slipping.. Losing excitement?

Tomorrow is my birthday party. I invited about 10 friends, it was going ot be a movie. Now, only 3 RSVP, 2 "I cant go"s, and 5 haven't answered. one of my friends may not have even been told because i really just cant contact her! I made a new friend named Conner, (in another question) and I may invite him but I don't know. We met only a week or so ago, but he lives close so I'm nto sure :/ ANDDD One of the people who cant go, is a guy I've been crushing on for a long time. Now i might like Conner, but im not sure (see other question for details) and I was excited to see my crush so I could remechemistrychemestry we had, but now he CANT COME? I thought the chips would fall into place but I feel like their just shattering before hitting the surface D:!!!!